tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54476709213489065652024-02-07T07:53:39.129-06:00Only way I know howLiving my life, Loving my fiance, being a good pet mommy doing it all the only way I know how...Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.comBlogger90125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-72388801785177348052011-06-01T12:40:00.000-05:002011-06-01T12:40:27.725-05:00Relay For LifeI will get back to regular wedding posting soon, lord knows there is a lot to post about but for now there is something more important coming up. I am participating in the Relay for life this weekend. I am doing this in honor of my grandma, who passed away from lung cancer in 2008. I was one of her primary caregivers for the almost year she was fighting cancer. It was one of the hardest but also one of the most rewarding things I have ever done in my life. I however don't want anyone else to ever have to go through that so I am doing what i can to fight cancer. Would you please help me and donate to the relay for life. If you do donate and do it in honor of someone who has or is fighting cancer please let me know and I will dedicate a portion of my walk to them. I want this to be one giant group effort, lets help get rid of cancer together!<br />
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Here is the link to my page so you can go and donate. <a href="http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR/RelayForLife/RFLFY11PL?px=20799710&pg=personal&fr_id=32172">donate to relay for life</a><br />
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And because no post is good without pictures here is a picture of my lovely grandma whom I miss dearly every day.<br />
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Sometimes I feel about as tall as an ant. I feel worthless, I feel stupid, I feel like a lump. I know I am not the only one, and I know I'm not it just sucks that it's so hard to come out of this funk. Any advice, what do you do when you get like this? I think I am going to go have some wine. Tomorrow is the St. Pat's parade, maybe that will help pull me out, some good time with friends.Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-35090206437498623672011-03-01T16:05:00.000-06:002011-03-01T16:05:57.438-06:00Mentor CoupleIf you will recall from one of my previous posts one of the requirements to get married at my church requires us to meet with a mentor couple a few times before our ceremony. We had our first meeting with Bill and Debbie last night. I was so nervous going in, I was afraid they were going to tell us our problems were so bad we shouldn't get married. I was shaking and having a hard time breathing, Mark had to calm me down before we rang the doorbell. <br />
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When they let us in we sat down and just talked for a few minutes and it really calmed me down. They made us a YUMMY dinner of salad, ravioli, and brownies with mixed berries on top. During dinner we just got to know them a little better and talked about us a little. <br />
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After dinner they gave us a little survey to fill out, about what we really want to talk about ranging from communication, finances, conflict/resolution, god, and sex. They said we weren't much different in what we wanted to/felt we needed to talk than different couples they have met with. And they said they have never recommend a couple not get married. WHEW! We started talking a little about communication and conflict resolution last night. Just from the few minutes we discussed it last night I can tell this is really going to be a positive for us and our relationship. I am looking forward to where this is going!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-27079129207243893512011-02-18T15:23:00.000-06:002011-02-18T15:23:16.734-06:00Flowers, photography, dresses oh my!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij9_4WwXNW987Vyx2JA3sNUnRvGobYdmmrs6MyvfIj8U9rJepO4UCwYSFIgLtwBNGkj77HAR3Jl6rI7dw4YD2-wx0mIp1GL1koDaRIH68fHSwIIxUbr-Qosk3kb7_UYqkdm0XEh7S-aA/s1600/P_10345_1_316297.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij9_4WwXNW987Vyx2JA3sNUnRvGobYdmmrs6MyvfIj8U9rJepO4UCwYSFIgLtwBNGkj77HAR3Jl6rI7dw4YD2-wx0mIp1GL1koDaRIH68fHSwIIxUbr-Qosk3kb7_UYqkdm0XEh7S-aA/s1600/P_10345_1_316297.jpg" /></a></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhs9PjIlwhqm0m8sMwLUIqtHrOXcGAld7CUlGiicMUYfunDnty7p7oiSy-iVTP5jF_OxHH2B_Tk6A1nmfmrWPclmkMjU0m01-7rbXK_IdmqogyIPxYP1gzFhQmNvXRf8eB8Wh5BSV53XQ/s1600/P_10561_1_322653.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhs9PjIlwhqm0m8sMwLUIqtHrOXcGAld7CUlGiicMUYfunDnty7p7oiSy-iVTP5jF_OxHH2B_Tk6A1nmfmrWPclmkMjU0m01-7rbXK_IdmqogyIPxYP1gzFhQmNvXRf8eB8Wh5BSV53XQ/s1600/P_10561_1_322653.jpg" /></a>Holy cow. This wedding stuff is stressful! Earlier this week I was ready to say lets go to the courthouse and screw all this planning shit. Bridesmaids dresses have been more difficult than I originally thought they ever would be. I have it narrowed down to two choices. I know which one I like I know which one each of my girls like. I also know which one my mom likes, his mom likes, my dad likes, he likes, my aunt likes, my uncles likes, and anyone else within a 5 person connection to this wedding likes. UGHHHH I don't want your opinion if you aren't wearing it you don't matter to me. Now I am stuck trying to decide which dress to get and I don't know. I'm thinking of just pulling one out of a hat and saying ok, thats it. This is the dress, no ifs, ands, or buts about it. I'm sick of the stress from it! Anyway I have uploaded pictures of the two dresses I am trying to decide between.. What's your opinion, I know I said I didn't want anyones opinion if you weren't wearing it but your opinions will be different to me than family. Not as pushy and do what I want blah blah like it often is with family and weddings.<br />
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Now onto flowers, I had no clue what I was looking for in flowers. I knew I wanted red, orange, yellows, and greens. I met with a florist yesterday and she was amazing. She took the colors I wanted and made a gorgeous bouqet for me, the girls, moms, and my grandma. The bouts were amazing. I am so much more excited about flowers now that I ever thought I would be! I can't wait to hold them on my wedding day!!<br />
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Photographer, we met with a photographer we absolutely adored, he works with a videographer who is also amazing.. And even the price for his most expensive package, including an album, 2 photgraphers for all day, videographer, full copyright of all images including retouching, 3 copies of the DVD from the videographer and unlimited number of places for pictures. All this for less than most others starting prices! I was so shocked and happy. We have seen his work and we like it and he used to work for the post dispatch as a photgrapher so you know he is good. I am so happy to have these decisions made and it's something else to mark off the checklist. <br />
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This weekend I am dog-sitting, going to the funny bone to celebrate birthdays, and going to the bridal show at Busch Stadium. It's going to be fun! What are you doing this weekend? Anything fun or exciting? Heck even sitting home with a bottle of wine and a movie marathon? That sounds good too!!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-22567715237136202602011-02-10T20:25:00.000-06:002011-02-10T20:25:21.655-06:00Church requirementsMark and I are getting married at Faith Lutheran Church in Oakville, MO. My church has a long list of things you need to do in order to get married there. First if one of you isn't a member of the church you have to attend the starting point class, which basically just informs you of the practicies and beliefs of the church. It's 4 hours long our head pastor leads it and you get a free meal. I was not looking forward to this class but it actually was much more interesting than I thought it would be.<br />
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The next requirement was to attend a marriage conference, it was a 2 day long event at the church where we watched a video and then had discussion time afterwards on what was introduced in the video. It was all based on the book of the bible "The Song of Solomon" I was shocked by how much there really is to learn about love from the song of solomon book. I would recommend this study to anyone. It really teaches you a lot about conflict resolution, intamacy between you and your spouse, how to communicate, and even courtship. There were many things in this study I wish I would have known when I was younger and dating. If you ever get the chance to attend this conference I highly highly recommend it!<br />
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The last thing we have to do is meet with our mentor couple 4-5 times. This is a couple who has been married for a while and want to help young couples in the church have a long, healthy, lasting relationship. We will meet them at their house and make dinner together, relax and just talk. The main marriage care director assigns you with a mentor couple based on your needs and their background. We met our mentor couple at the conference and they are wonderful, fun, and I think we are going to get along really well!<br />
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We also have to attend at least 75% of services in the year leading up to your wedding. Basically I am very pleased with the way church is handeling this and trying to make sure the marriages they perform there last. I wasn't looking forward to any of this before but now I wouldn't give it up. I would recommend any of this to anyone looking to get married.<br />
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If any of you have questions about any of this let me know!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-16397323349480189402011-02-04T12:38:00.003-06:002011-02-04T13:00:24.674-06:00more planningI am sure by the time September 24, 2011 comes around all 3 of my readers will be so sick of hearing about my wedding. I am going to apologize now for that because I am not going to stop posting about it!<br /><br />In my last post I had a request to post the picture of the bridesmaids shirts. Here is a picture of one of my bridesmaids with her shirt and me wearing my "bride" shirt.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHy9BFELqSgR7paBB9YCh1G1HfzE9ioZIc138npNDUEK5DZtu1hLOpOcA6OdAZX4W4mq6IYc-n17XTHDmslOtcscIospszidVlKt3cgo8tGPNGIuhmpIkULni3Rx-HGUViq8MCzSdMAQ/s1600/180205_814775920553_19227682_45068571_6424250_n.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHy9BFELqSgR7paBB9YCh1G1HfzE9ioZIc138npNDUEK5DZtu1hLOpOcA6OdAZX4W4mq6IYc-n17XTHDmslOtcscIospszidVlKt3cgo8tGPNGIuhmpIkULni3Rx-HGUViq8MCzSdMAQ/s320/180205_814775920553_19227682_45068571_6424250_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569909273529773426" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLleSZ_uAhlkyIYocGhKD2hLNtSQZdWyPnCxjui4aJtulShndmbPAEnrSbQTLrABkQonxvrORzVqkyP-9cyAOZUvZcfLyqN7Dt9Ggkn-l2gaCR7c1y-plrlEke82PtGpt6qoUcSKOJ_A/s1600/photo.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLleSZ_uAhlkyIYocGhKD2hLNtSQZdWyPnCxjui4aJtulShndmbPAEnrSbQTLrABkQonxvrORzVqkyP-9cyAOZUvZcfLyqN7Dt9Ggkn-l2gaCR7c1y-plrlEke82PtGpt6qoUcSKOJ_A/s320/photo.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569909284201591378" border="0" /></a><br /> Tomorrow 3 of my bridesmaids and I are going to look at bridesmaids dresses, I think I know which one it is going to be but I am not positive yet so I am going to hole of on posting a picture of it until we are sure!<br /><br />The reception hall is booked, and I am so exited about it! They have amazing food and the best car of all the reception halls around. The DJ is also hilarious and fun so I am excited to be working with him also!<br /><br />I have my limo company narrowed down to a few, and I am meeting with a photgrapher/videographer next week. It's all coming together and I am excited. I was really stressing earlier this week about all of this because I had no clue what to be looking for and asking these people. I eventually just sat down and went through every known limo company and photographer in St. Louis and looked at their websites. I picked a few I liked based on their website, pictures, customer reviews, and not going to lie prices. Showed them to my mom she narrowed it down to a few and we are meeting with all of them. This is not an easy happy go lucky process it takes time and patience. So if you are going through this too don't let it get you down it can be done!<br /><br />I'm working on another post about stuff we need to do in order to be married at my church. Be waiting for that!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-69799937171040287192011-01-24T16:31:00.002-06:002011-01-24T16:36:00.767-06:00bridesmaidsTo ask my matron of honor and bridesmaids to be in my wedding I bought pink t-shirts and then got black with white polka dot iron on letters and made each a shirt with either matron of honor or bridesmaid on them. I then made homemade cards and wrote a special note to each inside and asking them to be in my wedding. Then I mailed them off. The last girl got hers today and they all said yes! I am so excited that's another thing done and now we can start looking at bridesmaids dresses! it's going to be so much fun!<br /><br />In other wedding planning news, we have the church booked, we know which hall we want just need to sign the contract and such. I have my dress, and my appointment for alterations. Marks<br />mom is making the save the dates and they look amazing! She is also making our invites and I can't wait to get started on that. I haven't looked at florists or photographers yet, that'll happen. It's finally happening!!!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-60899175950652080972011-01-19T17:13:00.001-06:002011-01-19T17:15:30.807-06:00another giveawayThe lovely ladies at <a href="www.gograhamgo.com">Go Grahm Go</a> and <a href="http://www.michebag.com">Miche bags</a> are giving away a Miche bag to one lucky reader! You need to go over to her website and check it out! These bags are freaking awesome and you will love it!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-43431653553154582542010-12-29T13:30:00.002-06:002010-12-29T13:33:09.773-06:00dressesI'm going to try on wedding dresses on Saturday!! I am so freaking excited!! My mom, Marks mom, my brothers girlfriend, other brothers wife, and a bunch of my friends are going. I'm seriously counting down the hours now!!! EEEEEEEKKKKKK<br /><br />Any advice on anything to do or try while there? What should I wear there? Any advice at all?Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-16134755025440786042010-12-17T14:37:00.001-06:002010-12-17T14:38:24.705-06:00DateWe have a date set!!! September 24, 2011!! We have the church booked and thats it, but where we have a date and it is finally happening! I can't wait to start sharing all the planning info with you guys! It's going to be so much fun!! EHHHHHHHHHAmberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-9373284909554066042010-12-10T12:41:00.001-06:002010-12-10T12:41:48.300-06:00PuppyWe saved this little sweetie from a group that wanted to use her to train fight Pitts! She is so loving and loves to cuddle! If we didn't have so many animals already we would keep her but we can't. We don't know how old she is or anything just that she deserves better! I don't know how to upload a picture to blogger from my phone so when I get home I will upload one. Please help us find this sweetheart a home!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-59656949107908657892010-12-01T14:56:00.003-06:002010-12-01T15:01:27.011-06:00ch-ch-ch-changesWell i finally did it, I told everyone that I no longer want to be a doctor. I have known for a while but I didn't want to let everyone down so I kept on. I finally realized that if the only reason i was still going to be a doctor was because it's what people expected of me, was the wrong reason. I don't really know what I am going to do. I am sending in resumes right now for labs, health department jobs. If you know of any other jobs that I can use a Biology degree with please pass them my way! I am pretty open to anything, I'm just going with the flow and see where I end up at. God has a plan and I am going to follow it and try not to question it.<br /><br />This means, that mark and I can start thinking about a date for a wedding, and all the planning that comes with it. I can't wait!! I finally feel like my life is on a track that is heading where i want to be, married and living with my husband. I am no longer going to be stuck at a standstill watching all my friends by houses and get married, i am going to be one of them. I am going to be a grown-up!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-47451516581331621052010-09-28T16:02:00.003-05:002010-09-28T16:03:28.871-05:00TestI am taking my test again on Thursday. I'm freaking out and starting to shake constantly. Please say prayers, send me good vibes whatever you have. If I don't pass it this time I don't know what is going to happen in my career. I know this is where God is leading me and it's what he wants for me but I still feel nervous that I won't pass. So please just keep me in your prayers.Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-85877295742824479072010-09-21T13:14:00.002-05:002010-09-21T13:21:52.187-05:00Help a soldier<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgN3y8jw67R7pJvTW6uRcunYN6-FPE7F2yrmbfjY4xcCJHatosit7UO69unBfAwYc4FfA3pUKo0rbAoKnpyKYZ5s6ZkQ4lJ81N0rJle9k5aOtfTtsEbyHwKp6CU00iY6FDpeIoqIJAqNQ/s1600/WoundedWarrior.gif"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 176px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgN3y8jw67R7pJvTW6uRcunYN6-FPE7F2yrmbfjY4xcCJHatosit7UO69unBfAwYc4FfA3pUKo0rbAoKnpyKYZ5s6ZkQ4lJ81N0rJle9k5aOtfTtsEbyHwKp6CU00iY6FDpeIoqIJAqNQ/s400/WoundedWarrior.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5519433547247579970" border="0" /></a><br />All of you in St. Louis, what are you doing this Saturday? If your answer is nothing you should come to Faith Lutheran Church at 6101 Telegraph road, in Oakville. They are partnering with the Mehlville Fire Department to host a Wounded Warrior benefit.<br /><br />This is the description from the site:<br /><br />The Mehlville firefighters and Paramedics are sponsoring a Benefit BBQ at Faith Lutheran Church Sept. 24th & 25th. The proceeds will go to Corporal Todd Nicely, a Marine that lost all of his arms and legs do to an explosion in Afghanistan. We would love to have some volunteers, donations or just come and eat and have fun. We will have music, a car show, some fire trucks, some military trucks and some inflatable slides, obstacle courses, raffle and plenty of BBQ cooked by our own Firefighters. Please join us for a good day.<br /><br />Friday: 11:00-7:00 BBQ and a car cruise<br />Saturday: 11:00-5:00 BBQ, stuff for kids, car show<br /><br />As you can see there will be plenty of stuff for everyone in the family! There is a building for kids to play games, such as basketball and Wii. I am going to be volunteering at one of the moon bounces, and I will also have a car entered in the car show.<br /><br />So please come out and eat, enjoy some fun stuff some cool cars and help support and wonderful man and his family!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-78027194944851554062010-07-16T12:59:00.001-05:002010-07-16T12:59:41.296-05:00Last post about this!Ok this is my last plea to donate to help support my walk to help cure kids cancer!<br /><br />Please support me as I walk to help support research to cure kids cancer! I am participating in the annual six flags walk in the park on July 17th. Go to: www.walkintheparks.org type amber Doggendorf in the support a walker search bar and please donate! Thank you!!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-44588229057662797472010-07-15T16:02:00.001-05:002010-07-15T16:02:15.780-05:00Please please please help!<h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" ft="{"type":"msg"}"><span class="UIStory_Message">Do you hate kids cancer? Do you wish there was something you could do about it? If you answered yes to these questions, you are in luck!! You can support me as I participate in the walk in the park to cure kids cancer. It's this Saturday at Six Flags St. Louis. Just go to <a href="http://www.walkintheparks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.home" onmousedown="'UntrustedLink.bootstrap($(this)," rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><span>http://www.walkintheparks.org/index.cfm?</span><wbr><span class="word_break"></span>fusea<span class="text_exposed_hide">...</span><span class="text_exposed_show">ction=donorDrive.home</span></a><span class="text_exposed_show"><br />and under the support a walker type in my name: Amber Doggendorf and it will take you to my donations page. The link was bad but I've got it right now. Thank you so much for any donation you can give! <br /><br />Oh and if you answered no to those questions why the h*ll am I your friend??</span></span></h3>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-33266256137807408752010-07-12T11:40:00.001-05:002010-07-12T11:40:22.512-05:00AgainJust reminding you all to donate to help cure kids cancer!<br /><br />Please support me as I walk to help support research to cure kids cancer! I am participating in the annual six flags walk in the park on July 17th. Go to: www.walkinthepark.org type amber Doggendorf in the support a walker search bar and please donate! Thank you!!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-41618197625545457292010-07-09T20:52:00.001-05:002010-07-09T20:52:25.096-05:00Walk in the parkHey all, I know it's been awhile and I always say this but I will do better! I've reapplied for the test so pray for me! But the big thing I got on here for is to ask your help with something. I am participating in the six flags walk in the park to cure kids cancer and I'm asking you to donate! I can't stand to think of kids dealing with cancer, this is one of the reasons I want to be a pediatrician. If you could just go to www.walkintheparks.org and in the support a participant bar type amber Doggendorf and donate to my page. I appreciate all the help you can give me, but really the kids. I am looking forward to this walk and hope you will consider supporting me! Thank you all!! And sorry if this post is messed up it's the first one from my iPhone. Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-33566040713944879372010-03-22T14:01:00.002-05:002010-03-22T14:06:56.739-05:00hmmmWell, you know how I said i was miserable at work with Kitty. I don't need to worry about that anymore, her daughter called me yesterday to tell me that she passed away this weekend. They are thinking it was another heart attack. As much as i didn't like working for her, i definitely didn't want anything like this to happen. The visitation is tonight, so I am going to go and say goodbye to her.<br /><br />I lost 3 pounds in the past like 2 weeks, the main reason for that is being sick, and nervous from working for kitty. When I get nervous/stressed/upset I can't stay out of the bathroom, so hey if nothing else it helped me to lose some weight. 5 more pounds to lose and I will be down to my "happy" weight and if I could lose 10 more pounds I will be at my WOOHOO weight!<br /><br />On Saturday night we went to Ameristar casino, I had never been there before and I like it so much better than Harrahs, its just much nicer looking. I still need to go to River City, maybe this weekend.<br /><br />Mark and I are going to be spending all weekend together because he gets Friday off, so he ahs a 3-day weekend! I can't wait it'll be nice to just spend time together.<br /><br />I still need to upload my pictures from the St. Patty's day parade last week and when I do I will make a post with it. I had a ton of fun even though it was cold!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-21225044206375913132010-03-15T14:38:00.002-05:002010-03-15T14:40:41.719-05:00EEKKKMark and I are looking at another house, we went out yesterday just the two of us to walk around the house and property and look. We both still like it so tonight I am taking my parents out there, and if they like it we are going to be calling our realator. Its a 3 bed 3 bath house on 5 acres in the middle of nowhere. I'm kinda having a minor freak out about this! Like is this really going to happen?! So keep us in your thoughts as we figure out logistics and money and everything...Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-32193339764290785542010-03-12T15:46:00.003-06:002010-03-12T16:13:53.480-06:00Mish mashI know I just posted about Jamaica but now you are going to get a post full of stuff that has happened since then til now, so I can finally be caught up on my blogging.<br /><br /><ul><li>There have been a few times in the past month where my group of friends has gotten together, and my best friend, who got married last year, has been acting not himself. I see him slowly drifting away from me and there isn't anything I can do about it. He has left me out of important things in his life. He is ignoring texts and facebook messages. I don't know what to do about it, and it hurts so much. It's a big part of why I have been in such a dark funk lately I think.</li><li>My dark funk is putting a ravine between me and Mark. The first and worst week of this funk Mark was here Saturday and Sunday and saw it, on Monday when it was the worst, he asked me if I was ok and I had been saying yeah, I'm fine whatever. Finally on Monday when he asked I looked at him and just said no I'm not ok, and you know what he did? HE LEFT, he F-ing went home. I was so pissed! I admit something is wrong and he leaves. That was two weeks ago and I still don't think I am over it. I even hinted in status messages about wanting flowers to cheer me up, or just wanting to feel better, did he do anything, nope nothing. I just want to feel like he cares, ya know?</li><li>I went to one of my good friends new boyfriends concerts. He plays in a metal band, not my type of music but I'm there for support, it was actually pretty good, not as bad as I thought. There weren't many people there, it was at "The Library" in Soulard and they have a little shop thing in there with a penis pinata! We were in shock, awe and knew we had to have it. Unfortunately it wasn't for sale, so needless to say we will be going back just to see it.</li><li>I'm going to the St Patty's day parade tomorrow with the same friend. It should be fun, I'm ready for some green beer and feel I may not remember alot of what happens tomorrow, but for how I am feeling I think that is ok.<br /></li><li>I have been studying but not as much as I would like and I know as I need to. I just want to be sure that this time and energy will pay off in the end.</li><li>I am working for a new lady who is mean, hateful, and makes me miserable and sick pretty much everyday I am there. I need the money though so i can't quit. I suffer through and put my check in the bank each time thinking I am closer to having the money to pay for this test.</li><li>And to end on a happy note my kitty is getting so big! He came to us last July, his mommy had been hit by a car and he was hiding out at my dads shop. He will be 1 in may and I can't believe it! I am going to add some happy kitty pictures to end with:</li></ul><div style="text-align: center;">My baby boy with his favorite toy<br /></div> <div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhw-GmZ8uMGKYkWNusERD2DN22PSvz2fzyOuXrvBgiTa8p6iX6hcY1fDmcY_3wGvt_wyczLnyCKEWrchuWWrsbMl_PKC_VD8OMOG_EkmcMsKoWKPSo0Y98IMX5eMHAjegRfOLtvHM-oeQ/s1600-h/314.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhw-GmZ8uMGKYkWNusERD2DN22PSvz2fzyOuXrvBgiTa8p6iX6hcY1fDmcY_3wGvt_wyczLnyCKEWrchuWWrsbMl_PKC_VD8OMOG_EkmcMsKoWKPSo0Y98IMX5eMHAjegRfOLtvHM-oeQ/s320/314.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447872610714573842" border="0" /></a><br />Jasper trying to figure out why he has a pink bed. (It's because we thought he was a girl)<br /></div> <div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3jNenatlKrxfj_gfJ3FhKWYhIrKLlEcAFP_zG6Mu8T8t07Yc8gYMgEtDI7pLaEibpyKdyhpqrZH5XBelD5_bSP3vI1-FY86s4W37EU5fabzmPysIqkzOrOyZSi8FuZk7ZQ8OVWrtqvA/s1600-h/310.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3jNenatlKrxfj_gfJ3FhKWYhIrKLlEcAFP_zG6Mu8T8t07Yc8gYMgEtDI7pLaEibpyKdyhpqrZH5XBelD5_bSP3vI1-FY86s4W37EU5fabzmPysIqkzOrOyZSi8FuZk7ZQ8OVWrtqvA/s320/310.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447872602901375170" border="0" /></a><br />Jasper enjoying the sunshine as a big boy<br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhz2bjXHfAc6rzlmvG1Rd8VBpQMXffHIISXvWX5L2Git5VwoV8OG7scdrIOcnrcB01I7srYiLkpVWaUGjja0IfLbS1UMMjTRBJv8q13CSN2I_650Z9mZSvMY5nA-BxQLKfILQVNfUkNcg/s1600-h/house+stuff,+suson+park+076.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhz2bjXHfAc6rzlmvG1Rd8VBpQMXffHIISXvWX5L2Git5VwoV8OG7scdrIOcnrcB01I7srYiLkpVWaUGjja0IfLbS1UMMjTRBJv8q13CSN2I_650Z9mZSvMY5nA-BxQLKfILQVNfUkNcg/s320/house+stuff,+suson+park+076.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447872628303014626" border="0" /></a>Helping up to clean up the garage<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdy6NVeHDZV2cEJGFUtuYl6Tyf5d5ShU60j1rw5cfuR0mLI4tD4kLsZ5JReCm0OuBFB9mVUrqmlBvm1WcI0COH9flZbnGzmM_2g7QKNO-Z7Jsm6uXJGDY9jsKha_TLw73d2fiqGUn13Q/s1600-h/house+stuff,+suson+park+003.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdy6NVeHDZV2cEJGFUtuYl6Tyf5d5ShU60j1rw5cfuR0mLI4tD4kLsZ5JReCm0OuBFB9mVUrqmlBvm1WcI0COH9flZbnGzmM_2g7QKNO-Z7Jsm6uXJGDY9jsKha_TLw73d2fiqGUn13Q/s320/house+stuff,+suson+park+003.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447872624309847490" border="0" /></a><br /> </div>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-13781849658289500052010-03-12T15:21:00.005-06:002010-03-12T15:45:56.698-06:00JamaicaI am finally going to get around to my Jamaica mission trip:<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">the hotel owned by ACE called the Galina Breeze<br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg2OzbBIptRFGZMIXA6PeIUorYNpFsXFcyC8HbGYYj5BU9dYYAk7YDVbNAUn0quNo7z4b04v7vHIb7lXCcdiOv-ZLM4-04suoB7Jf0AaxunrPZdCi1Fvw5DhpXgmV595HuMfnxtrciUw/s1600-h/jamaica1+061.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg2OzbBIptRFGZMIXA6PeIUorYNpFsXFcyC8HbGYYj5BU9dYYAk7YDVbNAUn0quNo7z4b04v7vHIb7lXCcdiOv-ZLM4-04suoB7Jf0AaxunrPZdCi1Fvw5DhpXgmV595HuMfnxtrciUw/s320/jamaica1+061.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447865908646027682" border="0" /></a><br /> I went on a mission trip to Jamaica with the college aged and 20 somethings group from my church. it was amazing. We went with a group called <a href="http://www.acexperience.org/">ACE</a> or American Caribbean Experience. While there we tutored students, the first student I had was a first grade girl, she could read anything I put in front of her, even big words she could sound out. Next I had a sixth grade boy who couldn't even read the word "go". I was in shock, how has he made it through, ends up they just pass kids through and that's it. In sixth grade they have to take a test and this test tells them whether they go to university or to trade school. Can you imagine that, in sixth grade your life is decided for you. My church sponsors a few of these kids, that gives them the tutoring, food for lunch, uniforms to wear to school. They kids families are so poor some of them sleep on dirt floors, and when it rains they sleep in mud. It was so sad. We were at the schools 4 of the five days we were there, we also did PE with the students because they don't have it as part of their curriculum they also don't get science very often. Entire curriculum's are missing from these kids schooling.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">One of the schools we worked at 1st-6th grade<br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqpQk0uXb0grpsfanyUHew2HsYpAchHQL6SokG5xaiCM7Ohmj40tAOsI6KXkIf7iRhDOrWIeVY9JIICIg0yUqVihCwlgQ8rNe5AKKwgkUvyo_LySrg_d1sASgZUbnetjx6lbxylm56ow/s1600-h/jamaica1+096.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqpQk0uXb0grpsfanyUHew2HsYpAchHQL6SokG5xaiCM7Ohmj40tAOsI6KXkIf7iRhDOrWIeVY9JIICIg0yUqVihCwlgQ8rNe5AKKwgkUvyo_LySrg_d1sASgZUbnetjx6lbxylm56ow/s320/jamaica1+096.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447865926875972850" border="0" /></a><br /> Besides the schools we also went to something called the infirmary. This is basically the "poor house" when you have no money and no family to take care of you this is where you go. It's a giant room with beds all along the perimeter, all these people did was lay in bed all day, until ACE came in. Now they get juice, and fresh water and food at least 3 days a week, they get music, and they are coloring and playing dominoes, and messing with play-doh. Many of these people are older and you may think that's not a big deal, coloring, woohoo, when ACE first started going there most of these people couldn't even get out of bed, its huge that they are now able to do this. These people get basically no vegetables, no fruit and little meat, rice is their main food. One male there, was probably about 19 and he lived in this place because nobody else could handle him, why was he so hard to handle? Because when he was a boy he got "passed around" the males of the town, the only way he could handle it was to act out, now he is drugged up all the time that he can't do anything, because he never had the chance for counseling or the chance for a real life because nobody took him out of the situation he was in. This all sounds sad and hard but let me tell you, this was the chance of a lifetime and i will be going back.<br /><br /> It wasn't all work, we did have some relax time while there. We got to see the football team play that is sponsored by ACE. That was an experience, football is a religion to Jamaicans and so much fun to watch. We had a water volleyball tournament in the pool, great devotions at night with the group. I learned how to play dominoes, the unofficial game of Jamaica. We spent a day in Kingston seeing the only Lutheran church in all of Jamaica, the pastor from that church actually spent the week with us as my church is "unofficially" teamed with him.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">The football team sponsored by the Galina Breeze hotel<br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhxH5ZIODt5sCXwAWq7baiyVUf5_CDhMsYgNe7gOZ99ppygAd8j8OaDZabyoqXfkGbofjxL7xm4aUvMMqVFh5mzKOwvtKBJuIoTXucya6QwH2BZRq90x7PpuRZNdCkQUXm2CL8kljeOg/s1600-h/jamaica1+070.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhxH5ZIODt5sCXwAWq7baiyVUf5_CDhMsYgNe7gOZ99ppygAd8j8OaDZabyoqXfkGbofjxL7xm4aUvMMqVFh5mzKOwvtKBJuIoTXucya6QwH2BZRq90x7PpuRZNdCkQUXm2CL8kljeOg/s320/jamaica1+070.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447865919062842562" border="0" /></a><br /><br /> I am actually going to ask you to click the link above for ACE and see if it is something you would maybe talk to your church about. They need people down there to help, the kids need your tutoring, the people in the infirmaries just need you there visiting with them, talking to them, and making them feel alive again. And Marla just loves it when groups come down!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-27241168446759177772010-02-04T11:19:00.002-06:002010-02-04T11:23:12.413-06:00week 2 weigh inI was so nervous to step on the scale today, I thought my heart was going to come out of my chest! I shouldn't have been nervous at all! I lost 2.3 pounds since last weeks weigh in! WOOHOO I was so excited I practically skipped back down the hall! So that means I have lost 3.3 pounds in two week! Working out and watching your calories actually works! If you have an iPhone I 100% recommend the Loseit app. You record everything you eat every time you work out and it keeps tracks of your calories for you and tells you how many more you can eat. It then subtracts the calories you burn when you exercise, it's a great app and helping me out so much right now.<br /><br />I am not going to make yoga again tonight because I need to work, I'm upset I have only made it to yoga once as compared to my three times for Zumba. I am going to make it back Yoga I swear!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-66818687651944256192010-02-03T16:35:00.003-06:002010-02-03T16:37:48.131-06:00done for the dayAnother day of studying is done, I feel like I got a good amount accomplished today: Cardiac, Endocrine, Hematology, and Musculoskeletal Physio got done. I am going to review them tomorrow morning before i go to work and hopefully tomorrow night at work after Toots goes to bed I can review GI physio. My head feels like it is going to explode, I just want to sleep and I want to be done with it all.<br /><br />But now I need to go home make dinner, change the laundry out and then go to the gym for Zumba class or Kelly will call and ask where I am and be incredibly dissapointed if I don't go, like she was last night when i didn't go to the gym...bad me.<br /><br />And did I mention that studying for the USMLE step 1 sucks? Because it really does...Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5447670921348906565.post-83070717771559769162010-02-03T11:21:00.000-06:002010-02-03T11:22:54.590-06:00studyingI'm back at the good ol library to study. Physiology is on the schedule for today. I don't want to do it, I hate Physio it can kiss my ass for all i care, but it's one of the biggest topics on the test so I can't just skip it. I guess I just need to suck it up and do it, huh? UGHH wish me luck.<br /><br />As a side note, i totally can't wait for my scheduled lunch break because I am going to allow myself to watch biggest Loser from last night, woohoo!Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08404952044663137799noreply@blogger.com0